Can't is a Lie

Can't is an excuse. It really means you don't want to put forth the effort to push past fear and/or others' doubt and do the work required.

You're an adult and need to decide if you want a life filled with limits or if you want to be a forerunner. It's easy to fall in line with the herd, but why be chattel when you can own the ranch?

Can't or can is your choice.